Humiliating behavior women's facing in India

Hi this article i am writing for sharing you my experience about the such humiliating behavior women's go through in India. The only reason i am writing this is for a hope, that people and you may stand against of rape and put force on government to make a strong punishment act for rapist and such peoples so that may be some day my country and my society come over from this stupid mentality that we are internally safe and our women’s too. This is really really very shameful for us to have this kind of act’s that still going on in our country with our Daughters, women's, mother's, sister’s and friend every single women, i totally disagree that we having a safe life or safe country to live. This you will understand after reading my blog. After 16 December 2012, the heart touching and monstrous incident happen with India’s Daughter Jyoti Singh, how was rape and badly assaulted.

We all are well aware of this unacceptable incident, this took many days for me to come over and still when i remember or listen any other case of rape which we usually see every day in headline and on a front page of any newspapers make me so depressed and heavy heart. I thought after Damini case India will change and a big revolution will change the mindset ,, But not! something will. I don’t know what i can do for this. But that doesn't mean that i can’t do anything. I always pray to god to give a hardest punishment for those guys who have done and who are willing to attempt such activity, i know god not going to come for them because he have made us capable to fight back. There are many NGOs and many other organization who are working against this violence, and even i’m been a part of some of them, there are many many other case i have seen, Its really hard and painful to see a girl , a child or a lady going through this, May be i can’t feel the same what the victim is going through, but i know most women's want to die after this. I remember one case of a 4 year old girl child who was badly rape and killed by 2 people one of 34 and other of 40 probably, what they did is, they burn the private part of that girl after rape while she was alive suffering from pain, they use petrol and cigarettes to burn after rape they thought that they will get in jail after parents and society knows what happen and the only way out of this is to kill and burn all those proof. But police caught them after 2 weeks the girl died on the same day.

We are helpless to do anything except criticizing. And hope you will do the same don’t waste your words you will need them, there is more to read and criticize,

I am going to share another rape case with you. This is of radhika (name changed) who come from a small village i don’t remember the hole story of that but i do know how her daughter commited suicide ( actually Murdered ).

Radhika was around 26 or 30 living his life with her one daughter and her husband due to some reason on a night after her husband get sleep she ran away from her husband with her teenage daughter, as i could remember the case story after an hour she was out of her village and going to her father’s house who was in city (somewhere) touched to her husbands village , so after she left the village and passing from a highway later on her way she find 4 people were drinking and shouting, there were watching a video on a phone (holding in the hand of the middle guy) slowly she pass the way rushing towards her father house, but she might ignore the problem who were following her, her daughter feel the trouble and told her mom to start run but as soon radhika could understand the problem those 4 people tied her and her daughter with their belts and take them on the other side of highway.

They were 4 people less then the age of 22 who rape one by one, both mother and daughter were badly raped and after in hospital the doctors find broken pieces of glass in private part of radhika's daughter. Radhika’s father and her husband belongs to farmer background, they both blamed radhika for all what have done! And her daughter faced that much depression that she committed suicide after leaving a suicide note.

In her suicide letter, she :- “Maa me bahut dukhi hu iss baat se ki me ek ladki hu baapu bhi ek bhai ko bolte hai, dadi bolti hai ki mere ijate nhi rhi ,mou kaala krva diya, Logo ne tera balatkaar kiya hai, tu yhi mar ja, tu school nhi jaygi, mar ja kukarmi, me jaanti hu ki mere saat kya hua hai or ye bhi ki ab mera zinda rhna boj se bhi bhari hai, rasmhi bhi nhi aati uski maa boli tera to kaam hoga mere bati tere saat nhi rhgi log ise bhi tere trha smjege, baapu bhi bhot bolte hai, ab log muje azeeb trha dheak te hai..., kaash me tera ladka hoti to aaj hum ise nhi hote.”

This what she all wrote. She was in eight class, on the day of her death after reading her suicide note radhika tried to commit suicide.

I believe if Radhika's daughter was alive and should carry her fight try to study she might change the thinking of her society and life as well. I am sharing their stories because today i have seen a video on Facebook share by a army group on my clients Facebook profile. I have tried to get back the link but couldn’t retrieve it, because it's a corporate Facebook page lots of post engaged on a single day. And even i’m sharing this article through my clients blog expecting the same as i mention in the starting of my article that only with a hope i am posting this article and i also request you to share this not for me but for the one women you love she could be you mother or wife or may be your daughter anybody else you friend for making a bond to support a revolution Act in Indian constitution against Rap and the Mentality.

Author :- Achal Sharma